The very word decluttering can seem overwhelming if you are someone who has held onto stuff over the years, or simply someone who would love to let go, but doesn’t know where to start.
Therefore, I hope these easy decluttering tips help you get started and put your mind at ease that decluttering can actually be fun once you get into it!
- If you struggle to let go, ask yourself why. Is it the cost of the item versus its usage, or does it evoke memories of the past (good or bad)? I always say if it makes you sad, that is bad, and it’s time to let it go. Consider taking a photo if you still want a memory of it. Remember – if you hold onto the past, it will hold you back and stop you moving forward.
- Always start small and with the easy stuff. Never tackle photos and cards first – they are too emotionally charged and can leave you feeling deflated instead of motivated. Keep it small and easy. Maybe your underwear drawer needs a tidy-up. Be ruthless – only keep underwear you’d be happy to be seen in if the paramedics picked you up!
- Get prepared. Use black bags for rubbish (things that can’t be recycled), colourful bags for charity, and white bags for recycling. For items that need relocating to other rooms, use a large bag to carry them easily.
- If you intend to sell some of your stuff, be realistic. I always say aim for 50/50 – 50% to charity and 50% to sell.
- Set yourself a timer so you don’t get lost in piles of paper and endless decisions. Three hours is the maximum I recommend, though it depends on your stamina.
- Take breaks and stay hydrated. Open blinds, let in fresh air, and play music if it helps keep you on track.
- Involve your family. You may discover a secret natural declutterer in your household – I’ve met many a seven-year-old who happily says goodbye to a toy you’re still musing over. Encourage your children to donate – remind them another child would love their Barbie or toy if they no longer play with it.
- Learn to let go. In our society we’ve made buying part of who we are, but it isn’t. Letting go is freeing, and you may find your mental health improves. Clutter makes it hard to think clearly, and if life feels chaotic, it may be the clutter weighing you down.
- Be kind to yourself. Forgive yourself if you went through a period of overspending. The guilt can feel suffocating. Remember: if you bought it, enjoyed it, or used it, then it has served its purpose. If it no longer suits your life, it’s time to let it go.
- Be fully prepared. As well as bags, make sure you have marker pens, labels, string, and boxes to hand. Being organised from the start keeps you focused.
- Finally, if decluttering still feels overwhelming, call in a professional. There is nothing wrong with asking for help – it could be one of the best decisions you ever make.
Beth
The Lifestyle Concept