One of the best tips I ever received was to ‘let go’. Not that easy, if you have been someone who has been holding onto life for all of your life!
In my attempt to get everything just perfect, I found that nothing could be perfect, as nothing ever is. So how can you perfect what is already perfect, in other words, it is what it is?
‘Things/chattels/possessions’ do you not define you or make you. YOU make you. Yes, elements of you have been created by the life you have led, but like an onion, layers can be stripped piece by piece. As you come to this understanding you can start to realise that you can easily let go and once you have, you find the true you, hidden within.